tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9181799677568700072024-03-13T21:34:34.864-07:00Life, Love, and the Pursuit of HangoversA classy chick's guide through life, love, and the pursuit of hangovers.Classy Chickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15571637270827793755noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-61744781294742717052010-01-01T10:34:00.000-08:002010-01-09T10:18:02.099-08:00A Guide to Getting Over Him QuicklyMegan from Penn State recently posted a <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2009/12/19/a-guide-to-getting-over-him-quickly/">guide</a> to getting over the breakup blues on <a href="http://collegecandy.com/">College Candy</a>. Her advice is to "delete him," "replace him," don't give him time, "refocus on you," and "make a hate list."<br /><br />There are a lot of truths in this guide. The sweetest revenge is to go out with your single lady friends, look smoking hot and have a GREAT time. Let's face it, after a breakup or a break-off, we always want the other person to be miserable without us. With that said, put on your classy lady dancing shoes and go out there and be your fun, humorous, charming, beautiful self. At the very most, word will get back to almost lover that you are doing wonderful, and at the very least, you will go out and have a kick-ass time.<br /><br />If you are one of those classy chicks that puts their heart into every relationship and find it stomped on from time to time, read Megan from Penn State's <a href="http://collegecandy.com/2009/12/19/a-guide-to-getting-over-him-quickly/">Guide to Getting Over Him Quickly</a><a href="http://collegecandy.com/2009/12/19/a-guide-to-getting-over-him-quickly/"> </a>on <a href="http://collegecandy.com/">College Candy</a>. You can always find a link to College Candy under <span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">classy blogs we love!</span><br /><br />All my best,<br />SH<br /><br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->SHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08619989409672707570noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-77754425085419561862009-12-29T16:06:00.001-08:002010-01-09T10:18:46.176-08:002010: Resolutions for the New Year, Decade<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQlbfxpSLTl3P3Yq4LLi1Ekh_ZXMafE3_xR68_7DEkTs6OGlGX2t8pP-aovCZDdHvh6TYQMuq8Q8rvpZXYm3Jh7Kutj1ReGzzuoCdjUuTGygGtI9sdudtzjxcZo2ljV2SsY0FKeAi5Mh-h/s1600-h/photo_10095_20091121.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQlbfxpSLTl3P3Yq4LLi1Ekh_ZXMafE3_xR68_7DEkTs6OGlGX2t8pP-aovCZDdHvh6TYQMuq8Q8rvpZXYm3Jh7Kutj1ReGzzuoCdjUuTGygGtI9sdudtzjxcZo2ljV2SsY0FKeAi5Mh-h/s320/photo_10095_20091121.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420818434324461746" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:78%;">2010 Riflesso</span><span style="font-size:78%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"> - </span>Photographer: <a href="http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=809">Francesco Marino</a></span><br /><br />I was never a fan of New Year resolutions. In fact, I was so little of a fan that I never actually made any resolutions until this past year. The beginning of 2009 marked a huge turning point in my life. I was newly single, I was about to turn 21 (woohoo! It is all it is cracked up to be) and I was months away from graduating from college. The year of 2009 ended up being a HUGE year for me.<br /><br />I had two New Year resolutions for 2009. The first was to say YES more often. I wanted to put myself out there more and not turn down new opportunities. I definitely lived up to that resolution. The second was to try new food. I know, it sounds lame, but I am a picky eater. I have definitely tried new food! And, it turns out, I <3 food.<br /><br />So here are my 2010 New Year Resolutions:<br /><br /><li>Learn something Marketing /PR industry related every month. (The industry is constantly changing. This will be my best effort to stay on top of things.)<br /></li><li>Pull myself away from the computer / TV when someone tries to talk to me. (Sometimes I allow myself to become so entrenched in what I am watching / reading that I become a poor listener.)</li><li>Keep my work desk uncluttered and more organized. (This will be the biggest challenge.)</li><li>Say YES more often. (I don't want to become complacent.)<br /></li><li>Try more vegetables. (I despise vegetables.)</li>So those are my New Year / New Decade resolutions. I think all of them will apply throughout the decade. Hopefully, I can report progress next year.<br /><br />Do you make New Year resolutions? What will yours be?<br /><br />All my best,<br />SH<br /><br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->SHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08619989409672707570noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-22103712635681155092009-12-22T18:11:00.000-08:002010-01-09T10:19:40.928-08:00A Classy Chick's Guide to Dressing in the WorkplaceEvery young professional lady has problems with collecting, yes - I said collecting, a wardrobe for the workplace. Lets just face it, there aren't too many stores that offer enough styles that are youthful, chic and appropriate. Here in St. Louis, I rely almost solely on <a href="http://www.express.com/home.jsp">Express</a> and <a href="http://www.thelimited.com/">The Limited</a> for my work attire. Unfortunately, even they do not have a wide variety of choices for the workplace.<br /><br />Here are some tips that might inspire your own professional wardrobe.<br /><br />Tip #1: Think comfort and versatility. Black pants and a black blazer paired with an interesting shirt that adds color can take a classy chick a long way. If you have a job like me, you do a lot of walking, attend a lot of meetings and even have the occasional press conference or major event to tend to.<br /><br /><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/day_at_office/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=13970700"><img alt="Day at the Office" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFlNsam1CdmZlM2hHUGN1SGpiUkwzTlEAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Day at the Office" border="0" height="400" width="400" /></a><br /><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/day_at_office/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=13970700">Day at the Office</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=1180210">Millenial</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/steve_madden_shoes/shop?brand=Steve+Madden&category_id=43">Steve Madden shoes</a></small></div><br /><br />Tip #2: Start from a neutral base and add pops of color. Find a look that works for you and suits your job and duplicate it with a twist. The more you can mix and match your wardrobe the more options you will have.<br /><br /><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_wardrobe/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=14514333"><img alt="Work Wardrobe" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFlN2djhOV2Z2M2hHV3d4eG1vaFVuekEAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Work Wardrobe" border="0" height="400" width="400" /></a><br /><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_wardrobe/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=14514333">Work Wardrobe</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=1180210">Millenial</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/jessica_simpson_shoes/shop?brand=Jessica+Simpson&category_id=41">Jessica Simpson shoes</a></small></div><br /><br />Tip #3: Choose pieces that can easily take you from day to night. Don't forget to pack your clutch inside of your tote for easy transitioning.<br /><br /><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_to_evening/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=13969538"><img alt="Work to Evening" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFnFxM0hvTzdlM2hHakQzeVhSa2hfQUEAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Work to Evening" border="0" height="400" width="400" /></a><br /><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_to_evening/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=13969538">Work to Evening</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=1180210">Millenial</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/catherine_malandrino_dresses/shop?brand=Catherine+Malandrino&category_id=3">Catherine Malandrino dresses</a></small></div><br /><br />Tip #4: When it comes to work parties and dinner events, keep it classy. Cover up your lady bits while staying youthful and chic. (Side note: one or two cocktails is always classy and fun. Don't get sloppy drunk. Trust me you will regret it and no one will forget it.)<br /><br /><div><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_holiday_new_years_party/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=14514245"><img alt="Work Holiday/New Years Party" src="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-set/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFlJrcnoxbWJ2M2hHWXByd3hnbkRGMncAAAACaWQKAWUAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg" title="Work Holiday/New Years Party" border="0" height="400" width="400" /></a><br /><small><a href="http://www.polyvore.com/work_holiday_new_years_party/set?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=14514245">Work Holiday/New Years Party</a> by <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/profile?.embedder=1180210&.mid=embed&id=1180210">Millenial</a> featuring <a href="http://www.polyvore.com/kate_spade_bags/shop?brand=kate+spade&category_id=35">kate spade bags</a><br /><br />To recap, consider the following when adding to your professional wardrobe:<br /></small><ul><li>Start with neutral staple pieces.</li><li>Always have one piece that is interesting and funky (i.e., jewelry, scarf, top, shoes).</li><li>When wearing heels, always keep a pair of flats close at hand.<br /></li><li>Find totes that are large enough to fit clutches.</li><li>Make sure that your outfits are actually work appropriate. That means covering up your lady bits.</li></ul>I hope this post provides you with some inspiration to collect your very own work wardrobe.<br /><br />What tips do you have for dressing as a young professional?<br /><br />With whatever you do, keep it classy.<br /><br />SH<br /></div><br /><br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->SHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08619989409672707570noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-18765109734861907262009-11-28T21:13:00.000-08:002010-01-09T10:27:10.655-08:00Coming Out on Top: A Classy Chick's Guide to Perfect Breakup Sex<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/0/3362/Life%20Poll%20Sex%20Lights.jpg"></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Warning: The following is a true account of a breakup gone right. It is not for the faint of heart. Please do not attempt under the influence of alcohol, because then you will just look trashy. Be advised that this takes extreme girl-balls and a clear mind, and always, always, consult your fellow chicks before attempting. Enjoy!</span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/0/3362/Life%20Poll%20Sex%20Lights.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 358px; height: 476px;" src="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/0/3362/Life%20Poll%20Sex%20Lights.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><a href="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/0/3362/Life%20Poll%20Sex%20Lights.jpg"><span style="font-size:78%;">Photo Credit</span></a></div><br />If this was an episode of "Are You Afraid of the Dark?," we would begin by sitting around a campfire and announcing "The Tale of the Maneater." But, it is not so lets get started.<br /><br />It all started when SS broke up with her boyfriend. Like any girl, at first she was devastated. Everything seemed to have been going great, but looking back it was for the best. However, there was a looming feeling over her head of unfinished business. And like any classy chick, business should never be left unattended.<br /><br />After the breakup, SS layed low for a few weeks. Post girlfriend consultation and the obligatory boy-bashing stage, she was almost back to fighting shape. One night, it had finally hit her that she had not gotten any action in a couple of weeks (and lets be honest, a girl has needs,) and to remedy the situation she texted the "ex." It started out innocently enough:<br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><blockquote><span style="font-weight: bold;">7:00 pm</span><br />SS: Hey, what are you up to tonight?<br />EX: Not much, just hanging out at the house. Maybe heading to the bar later.<br />SS: Oh nice, well let me know whats up tonight.<br />EX: Sounds good.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">10:00 pm</span><br />SS: Can I tell you something? It's a little trashy.<br />EX: Uh, sure.<br />SS: Are you by yourself?<br />EX: Well, I'm at the bar with 'Tweedle-Dee'* and 'Tweedle-Dum'*<br />SS: Ok well, I'm really horny and I wanna see you.<br />EX: I'll be home in 20 minutes. The front door is unlocked.<br /><br />*names changed to protect idiot friends</blockquote>Not everyone can be as lucky as this, but this was a perfect opportunity for her to strike. Why should guys be the only ones to take matters into their own hands?<br /><br />Within a half an hour, SS arrived at EX's house and let herself in. When he came out to greet her, she had already started taking off her clothes. He tried making small talk, but I beleive her exact words were, "this isn't a social call, now get in the bedroom." Now SS has always had a fiesty personality and a take charge attitude, and this is no exception. But, over the course of the evening, shit got serious. Aside from taking the reins and making the rules, SS repeatedly told EX that she was there strictly for business and that she didn't have time for silly things like cuddling and kissing.<br /><br />When the evening was drawing to a close and EX asked her to spend the night, she said "sorry, I have more important things to do. I will see you later." The goodnight kiss insued and she turned away without another word. Since then, she has received numerous "Hey, how is it going?" texts from EX and various invitations to hang out.<br /><br />And now, a word from our sponsor, SS:<br /><br />Ladies, the most important thing I learned from this experience is that its okay to get what you want and take charge as long as everyone is willing to have a good time (although, at one point in the evening, EX told me that he wasn't used to this kind of attitude from me and that he felt like he was being taken advantage of -- and he liked it). Why should we sit by the phone and pine away at some silly boy thats not going to call when we can just put it all out on the table and get what we want with no strings attached?<br /><br />Just be sure to remember that this isn't recommended for just anyone and that it shouldn't be attempted after a super serious breakup or with someone that you can't just remain emotionally distant from.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Here are some ground rules and some tips for coming out on top:</span><br /><ul style="font-weight: bold;"><li>First and foremost, make sure you smell good and brush your teeth. We are classy chicks after all, and you want to make sure to impress your target.</li><li>Make sure its on YOUR terms. Don't be the booty call, be the booty caller.</li><li>Leave the lights on. Trust me. This is a game changer.</li><li>Feel free to try the "no small talk rule". Again, its not a social event, its bedroom-invite only.</li><li>I recommend going to their place. It makes it easier to be mysterious and leave time for a quick exit.</li><li>Don't spend the night. Spending the night leads to cuddling and kissing -- which is for amateurs. </li><li>And finally, always leave them wanting more. But, don't always give them more. Breakup sex is about the perfect and most fun end to a relationship that just didn't work out for the right reasons. Don't make it out to be more than that.</li></ul>Be smart. Be safe. Be sexy.<br /><br />xo - The Classy Chicks.<br /><br /><blockquote></blockquote></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->Classy Chickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15571637270827793755noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-89202192126908004252009-11-15T02:16:00.000-08:002010-01-09T10:26:40.609-08:00A little bit of history repeating.I wish they taught <a href="http://www.collegefashion.net/fashion-tips/a-quick-fashion-history-lesson/">courses like this</a> at my school. I. Would. Die.<br /><br />It's important to know where we came from and this article a chick's intro guide into the wonderful world of "Classy". I read <a href="http://www.collegefashion.net/">College Fashion</a> several times a day and they always have the best articles. Definitely a must read. <br /><br />Stay classy!<br />SS<br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->SShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07062711002755467448noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-31017034631115980312009-09-29T21:02:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:28:39.136-08:00Shoes...Oh my God, Shoes<span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Well, I finally decided to stop procrastinating and make a contribution to our lovely blog. If there’s one thing in fashion I would have to say I love the most, it would be SHOES! So what should you know about shoes? Well, here are seven simple rules for the best accessory to any outfit.</span><br /></span><div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000000;"></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><strong>SOME OF MY FAVS: </strong></span><br /></span></div><span style="color:#000000;"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387116871259510578" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyDNQ-rljLJroAF-yaDJ8W3Mt9k1BN2rDJKsJVZd5LsFU_GtB0xDwe01teRCmt-oy1IWNOIA70-jN3C0PCGtTC065RzjMePOWitfqP6SGAaz9MivYxRt23FJ-nvhgHy1amBraXE7dInCY/s200/CIMG0510.JPG" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387116855093076706" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgabVHDFdPkNRNbryKLcqV0u5v5L-2sh8P8ZYict-LKYSKxzeJUz3jy7sXy867ljhp0P7zd91dnHrwP_15JDLBZKQUH7dx5ioWwEGnkhBxgHFJVROAzw7r6mX9uUQ8ogoWWq5jR8Ybd_kw/s200/CIMG0508.JPG" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5387116862647785106" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUfc1og2Rn0DxiyysUYbe2rAx16Fooilc6F4EyEkSjTZUeuNrvZmqT4THnsXVsLSbNMv_fSOJmdHOcZ4zDLItWn_RIWEPMNF6R0w1MWZ2BumptglV_eHEu65s7XwmIf0etu1PvLr_v7Ok/s200/CIMG0509.JPG" /><br /></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong>Number 1: Pick comfort first</strong></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">The number one rule of thumb for picking out shoes should be comfort. One thing that could ruin your work day, trip to the store, or night out on the town is that excruciating pain from wearing shoes that are just murder on your feet. If you are going to buy a pair of shoes, make sure they fit you properly and are easy on your feet. A proper fit means your foot doesn’t slip out or down the shoe when walking, you have a little wiggle room, and the shoes fit snuggly, not tight! </span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong>Number 2: Make sure you can walk in them </strong></span><br /></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"></span></div><span style="font-family:verdana;"></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">Some people can wear the highest of heels and walk like they are in sneakers, but that’s not everyone. When trying the shoes on, walk around the store; try them out. A classy chick knows how to walk in her shoes and hold her own. The last thing you need when at a club is not being able to dance the night away without wiping out. </span></div><div><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"></div></span></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong>Number 3: Break in your new shoes </strong></span></div></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"></span></div><div><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">Wear your shoes around your house. It may feel weird to be wearing high heels with your sweats, but this will help with comfort and as an added bonus heels are great for building sexy thigh muscles.</span></div><span style="font-family:Verdana;"></span><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong>Number 4: Don’t be too matchy</strong></span><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong> </strong></span></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span><span style="font-family:verdana;"></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">Wearing a little black dress doesn’t mean wearing a black heel or flat. Try a bright color that will add a little pop to your outfit like red or leopard print. That little extra color can go a long way.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong>Number 5: Keep your feet warm</strong></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="color:#000000;">Be kind to your feet! They, along with your hands are the first parts of your body that become cold because your heart will pump blood to your vital organs (the core of your body) to keep warm. So wear shoes that are appropriate for the weather; that includes those hot summer days too. Boots (…a.k.a Uggs) were made for the winter and that’s the season they should stay in.<br /></span></div></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong><span style="color:#000000;">Number 6: Stay within your budget<br /></span></div></strong></span><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">It’s okay to splurge once and awhile, but don’t jump at the designer shoes so quickly. You can find almost the exact same pair of shoes at a cheaper price, if you just take the time to look. Be sure to watch for sales and the Internet sites for many stores have web exclusives, where you can find items at a lower price if you purchase them online. </span><br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong></strong></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"><strong>Number 7: Have fun! </strong></span></div><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><strong></div></strong></span></span><div><span style="font-family:verdana;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">Whether your 5’9” or 4’9”, wear the style you want to wear. Don’t be intimidated to wear sky high heels because you are afraid you will tower over others. Own your height! Being a shorter girl myself, I've felt like flats wouldn’t look so flattering on me, but it is all about how you wear them. For example, if you wear flats with skinny jeans, make sure the jeans stop at you ankle. Jeans that are too long will shorten your legs even more.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:verdana;color:#000000;">Remembering these simple tips can help save you from a fashion disaster and help boost your confidence. There's nothing sexier or classier than a strong confident woman! </span></div><div><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;"></span></div><div><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;">Stay Classy!</span></div><br /><div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">LL</span><br /><br /></span><a class="addthis_button" title="data:post.title" url="data:post.url"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" alt="Bookmark and Share" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" /></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div></div>LLhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15504024136190900098noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-60812894765812356242009-09-01T16:46:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:21:07.767-08:00Secrets to a happy relationship<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCcCDnKnqT7EIELzwqaJC6dfOyhsW8lQoj_RDd_e-V4QRR1xnnTPmu88oOHcOkfmgJci3dtafmnf_6NEVTYzxWUMZj2wIoDXCucBHcJ3sIp23vKPHyKjeZKiZ9mVfuHjNjxO3qkNye_pBQ/s1600-h/handimage.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 301px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCcCDnKnqT7EIELzwqaJC6dfOyhsW8lQoj_RDd_e-V4QRR1xnnTPmu88oOHcOkfmgJci3dtafmnf_6NEVTYzxWUMZj2wIoDXCucBHcJ3sIp23vKPHyKjeZKiZ9mVfuHjNjxO3qkNye_pBQ/s320/handimage.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376685123496198994" border="0" /></a>
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mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0in; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">Truth: Happy relationships make long lasting relationships.
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<br />First and foremost, you will not have a long lasting relationship if you do not have chemistry. Chemistry is one of those things that is hard to explain, but you know it when you have it. When you have chemistry, things just click and make sense. You never think in the back of your mind that you can live with your significant other's problems or convince yourself that eventually they will see the light and change. If there is chemistry, you love them for EVERYTHING that they are. Trust me, even the smallest things will eat away at you overtime.
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<br />Now, I might as well go ahead and say that I am in no way a relationship expert. I've noticed over the course of my relationship that the following secrets have come naturally and are constant.
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<br />1. Laugh everyday.
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<br />For one reason or another, we always end up laughing our asses off. Sometimes we laugh so hard we end up in tears. If your sense of humors mesh well, you will never run out of things to laugh at. So, goof around and make each other laugh.
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<br />2. Make plans.
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<br />Make plans so that you have something to look forward to together. Don't just wait for fun things to come along. Introduce each other to something new. Share your favorite things and places with each other. We already have plans for laser tag, the pumpkin patch, carving pumpkins, Halloween, the Christmas tree farm, sledding, and driving around looking at Christmas lights. In the long term there are a dozen or so weekend trips that we would love to take.
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<br />3. Challenge each other and conquer.
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<br />Challenge your loved one to go outside their comfort zone. Introduce them to a new type of food or entice them to do something that they would never have done before. Most recently, my boyfriend enlisted me to bike the annual Moonlight Ramble in St. Louis. I was really nervous before the event because I had not ridden a bike in over 10 years. I wasn't sure if I could complete the 14 mile course and I did not want to disappoint him. We started off kind of rocky. He was getting a little agitated that I was going so slow, but he recognized that I was trying hard and switched into supportive mode. Needless to say the bike ride kicked my ass, but I was so happy we stuck it out and completed the full course together. We conquered the Moonlight Ramble and are ready to move on to our next challenge.
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<br />4. There is always time for cuddle time.
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<br />Take at least 5 minutes out of your day and cuddle up with each other. Some of your best time spent is in each others arms. You cannot get closer than being physically close. Take the time to unwind and relax with each other. My favorite is falling asleep tangled together and taking a few extra minutes to wake up with each other.
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<br />Finally, always be supportive, encourage each other to grow, expand each others horizons, and pick your fights. Don't be afraid to disagree. Just don't turn disagreements into full blown fights.
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<br />What are your secrets to a happy relationship?
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<br />SH</p>
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table.MsoNormalTable {mso-style-name:"Table Normal"; mso-tstyle-rowband-size:0; mso-tstyle-colband-size:0; mso-style-noshow:yes; mso-style-priority:99; mso-style-qformat:yes; mso-style-parent:""; mso-padding-alt:0in 5.4pt 0in 5.4pt; mso-para-margin-top:0in; mso-para-margin-right:0in; mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0in; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">Truth: It is NEVER classy to peak in high school.
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<br />So we have all been there. High school. I'm not sure what stereotype you mostly fell into but I sure know what I did. I was the "dork/nerd/geek." It's true. I wear my stereotype proudly, because in reality, it got me to where I am today.
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<br />What qualified me as a dork? No, I didn't wear pocket protectors. I was just in all advanced classes which made me "socially unacceptable." Which was fine by me. I still had a great time in high school and wouldn't change a thing. My classes came with 40 fun friends that I was able to spend all four years with. Actually, I will share a secret with you at the end. But first, you have to read this post.
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<br />Ok, so since we have all been there, you will know that every high school has them. They are known as the popular girls/mean girls/It girls. Whatever. Basically the girls that no body likes except for themselves. They, in all reality, crowned themselves popular. (I always thought popular was judged by how many friends you had. Who knew?)
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<br />Any who, for those of you not fortunate enough to get in with the <i>chosen ones</i>, don't fret. Because, my friends, believe me when I tell you that they <i>peaked</i> in high school. Those four short years were the <i>only</i> best years of their lives.
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<br />I will bet that <i>9 out of 10</i> golden girl gets fat, knocked up, or is still working at Tan Co. So, here is my advise to those of you going through high school (or just a fun thing to think about for those of you not <i>fortunate</i> enough to belong to the popular club.)
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<br />1. When you are in high school, you find the idea of drinking thrilling, rebellious and oh so cool. Now, I am not dogging alcohol, because I drank when I was in high school. However, drinking was not my life and is still not my life. Besides, binge drinking leads to beer bellies. I swear that most of the golden girls from my high school that are now slightly (when I say slightly I mean they are carrying around two extra grown people or more inside of them) overweight, gained their extra pounds by hitting the bottle a little too hard. Their sloppy love affair started early in their high school years. Do yourself a favor and truly drink in moderation. Don't let high school be the last time people remember you at your skinniest and healthiest.
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<br />2. We all know that life is full of surprises. With this being said, every child is a blessing. But do yourself a favor and keep any extra-curricular activities safe. There is nothing better than looking back on high school or the immediate years following and knowing that the homecoming queen got knocked up by her 28 year old boy friend at the time who just so happened to be married. Very classy. At the very least, if you get a little surprise of your own, don't let it stop from doing what you want to do with your life. Keep moving forward. It is best for both you and your bundle of joy.
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<br />3. Do something with your life. Go to college, trade school, or get your feet wet with some serious work. Don't be the girl that is still working at Tan Co. just for the discounts. You will end up leathery and looking back on your life with nothing to be said for it. Trust me, college is nothing like high school. I thought high school was kick ass, but college was even better!
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<br />Another piece of advice that my oh-so adorable boy friend would like to add is...
<br />"Getting around and going to new places is fun. Ending up with a house that can do the same is NOT fun."
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<br />What I am saying is...there is nothing more gratifying than looking back and realizing that their best years are behind them and your best years are ahead of you. So, with whatever you do, always do the next thing bigger and better. AND, don't get so caught up in high school bull-shit that you get stuck there.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdVR2KfigBa4ETloF-ooesrWiyDvP8ZXlYWH-94PGWaypPbTpC_AQaNoz3b4IZfebGDAMiNOx_xFXWh-Xmuh0zNEB2c3AW1tNRUnyWs8eYtQ3SARMMLcmvnqa-MCXJVL03bvfb8xRGuhXK/s1600/grad.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 231px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdVR2KfigBa4ETloF-ooesrWiyDvP8ZXlYWH-94PGWaypPbTpC_AQaNoz3b4IZfebGDAMiNOx_xFXWh-Xmuh0zNEB2c3AW1tNRUnyWs8eYtQ3SARMMLcmvnqa-MCXJVL03bvfb8xRGuhXK/s320/grad.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5409949067907779154" border="0" /></a></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:78%;">Ok, now feel free to laugh at my graduation picture.</span>
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Let me preface this with saying that I never thought any guys from my high school were interested in me. I didn't really care. Most of them were lame anyways. Since graduation, I have run into guys from high school that were outside of my social circle. On more than one occasion they have mentioned to me that they always thought I was "good looking", but felt that I was unapproachable because I was so "smart." I laugh at the thought of me being intimidating. But I'll take it for what it is.
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<br />So remember, classy chicks are like fine wine. We only get better with age.
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<br />SHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08619989409672707570noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-9599279308460242862009-08-13T21:07:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:29:39.068-08:00Ode to a Toxic FriendLet me preface this post by saying that this is an actual letter that I sent to a (soon-to-be-former) friend of ours. This person has serious issues that cannot be encapsulated into a small blog post, but suffice it to say that you can only imagine the things that led to this letter.<br /><br />- - -<br /><br />Everyone has one. A toxic friend. Someone who you've known forever, been friends with for years, but you just cannot seem to get them out of your life. Try as you might, you can never find the right time or place to confront them with your unhappiness. As they say (and by "they", I mean me as well), "misery loves company".<br /><br />Well, I say that the time is now, and the best place, at least in my case, was in a letter, because you can calmly and reasonably collect all your thoughts and sit on it until you have edited to the point where you feel it is fit to send. I think a letter is the best way to do this because it allows you some freedom when speaking, its personal enough for someone to really think about it and take to heart, and it can be changed to your liking (before the "Send" button, of course).<br /><br />The following names have been changed to protect the guilty.<br /><br />- - -<br /><br />Pandora,<br />First of all, I have to say, that you are incorrect in your assumption that according to you, "it just wasn't the right place/time to bring up the issue [I] have with [you]". Yes, although it may have not been the right place or time, if you recall correctly, because as you said, you were "SO SOBER" you must remember that the issue was dragged out of me by you. This happened because throughout the night, at various times, you kept stirring it up and asking me to tell you. After refusing approximately 20 times, I eventually gave up and brought it out into the open because you "just wanted to know and [you] wouldn't get mad".<br /><br />I'm sorry that what was said hurt you enough to retaliate by calling me a "fucking bitch", and a "terrible fucking friend", and also by telling me that you "fucking hate" me. (Your words, not mine.) Granted, I also said some things, but my words were not as abrasive until you introduced them into the vocabulary.<br /><br />Second of all, there were many things that I did not say that night. Partly because I again, did not feel was the appropriate place or time to do so, but also because I just didn't have the energy or time to make such an extensive list. They are as follows and I will make them as brief as possible. I know you like specific instances when being "attacked" as you so call it, but unfortunately, I didn't have a notepad at the time that these things occurred and contrary to popular belief my life certainly does not revolve around you.<br /><br />The main thing that is an issue with me is your attitude about yourself and towards others. For example, every single time that we have ever gone out, there has been some comment made on your appearance and/or your weight. To be clear, I am not insulting you. I feel like it is often a crutch that you use as a way to get attention from others. By making some sort of comment like this, you are in a way 'fishing for compliments'. Let me just say that anytime I have ever tried to be nice and to compliment you it is rejected. Why should I even bother anymore? I think that once you start having a better attitude about yourself and you start leaving your issues with your body image out of the equation, you will get a lot more respect and positive attention.<br /><br />Another thing that constantly bothers me is the way you act when we are out in a group. I feel like the majority of the time, you aren't being true to yourself. Once the focus of the night ever so slightly drifts off of you, you begin to make a spectacle in order to gain that attention back. For example, when the group is at a bar and we break off to talk to guys, all of a sudden, there you are making snarky comments in order to make yourself known to the group once more, or you stand to the side, visibly upset and pouting because you are being "ignored" or "not included". For the record, no one intentionally excludes you, but rather, they just happen to be focusing their attention on something else for a few short minutes.<br /><br />If you want a specific example, I'll give you my most recent one. About a month ago, when we all went downtown for Lisa's birthday, TB and some of his friends met us up at Flannery's. TB was drunk and after I introduced him to JN, he began a "guy convo". I tried 3 times to introduce him to you because he was drunk and not paying attention. Instead of taking it for what it was, a drunk guy talking to another drunk guy, you began pouting and saying (and I quote), "Oh no, its cool. Just ignore me. No big deal. Just pretend I'm not here." That was really embarrassing the next day when I had to explain to TB that no, my friend didn't hate him, she just always acts like that.<br /><br />I understand that its hard for you to approach people you don't know at a bar, but that's what we do. That's how you meet new people and new friends. I realize its not always the easiest thing to do, but sometimes you have to just go for it. Unfortunately for me, its not always easy to meet new people and new friends when my group has to constantly babysit you and make sure that you're being entertained and your ego is being fed. Its not fair. And if that is the reason that I never call you to hang out, then so be it. If that is what makes me, in your words, "a shitty fucking friend" then so be it.<br /><br />Finally, the last thing I have to bring up is your favorite topic of conversation. The "Drama" Issue. Pandora, I don't know if you have ever noticed, but for some odd reason, whenever I am with my friends, we always have a great time, whether it is a group of three, or four, or more. We always, always, always have a blast. The only time there is ever a "drama issue" is when you are added to the equation. Funny how that happens. I know that you say you "hate drama", but honestly the ONLY time it is ever in the picture is when it comes pre-packaged with you. Once you start realizing that, then maybe you will understand why I don't call you to hang out. Part of the reason is that your temper tantrums and pouty faces are embarrassing and frankly, if I'm not getting paid to babysit on a Saturday night, why should I waste my time?<br /><br />On the other hand, I am truly sorry that I wasn't there for you throughout your breakup with Danny. I realize that was a hard time for you, and as someone who has been through a rough breakup, I should've been there to help you and give you advice, or at the very least, a shoulder to lean on. However, you know this about me, I try to be as level-headed as possible, and I honestly think that that is something you hate about me. I feel that way because whenever I urge you to see both sides of the story, you shut down the idea completely. That is fine. Do what you want or need to do. But I ask you this, if you aren't going to listen to me, then don't ask me. I try to see both sides of the story, and Danny is my friend, too. You both deserve happiness, and maybe what you need is to move on. I know its hard. I know you are having trouble with it. But honestly, it is what is best for you. In order to become a whole person again, the best thing is to stop dwelling on the past and start looking towards the future.<br /><br />Pandora, I say this with all my heart, you are honestly and genuinely one of the kindest souls I have ever met. I know that you will do anything to go above and beyond what is asked of you to help someone out. I truly feel that you are a beautiful person both inside and out. I just wish that you could see that for yourself instead of relying on others to tell you. I wish that you would let your guard down and let others see you for the amazing person that you are. Unfortunately, all of your wonderful qualities are often overshadowed by your negative attitudes and unwillingness to listen.<br /><br />I understand if you never want to speak to me again. Honestly if that's what you want, then I welcome it. But I will tell you this, I recently saw a movie and as corny as it sounds, the instant I heard them say these words, it reminded me of you. Take from that what you will.<br /><br />I am not going to be the goody-bag at your pity party anymore.<br /><br />I know that misery loves company, but I don't want to be in your company anymore if this is how you act.<br /><br />I mean this in the best way possible, but I honestly and sincerely recommend that you seek professional help. Whether it be a counselor, a therapist, or a psychiatrist, I think it would benefit you to share yourself with someone outside of your social circle.<br /><br />I wish you all the best and I look forward to hearing from you (only if you let these words sink in).<br /><br />Sincerely,<br />SS<br /><br />If you're wondering why I decided to change this person's name to Pandora, I felt it was the most fitting name to describe this person.<br /><br />PANDORA (Πανδώρα): Greek name composed of the elements <i>pan</i> - "all" and <i>doron</i> - "gift," hence "all-gift." In mythology, this is the name of the first mortal woman whose curiosity unleashed evil into the world.<br /><br /><br /><div><a class="addthis_button" title="data:post.title" url="data:post.url"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" alt="Bookmark and Share" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" /></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div>SShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07062711002755467448noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-13149437097042784122009-08-03T18:01:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:30:44.209-08:00Wardrobe Staple: The Perfect Leather Jacket"You know that thing when you see someone cute and he smiles and your heart kind of goes like warm butter sliding down hot toast? Well that's what it's like when I see a store. Only it's better."<br />- Confessions of a Shopaholic<br /><br />So true. So true. Except, in our case it wasn't just shopping. Oh, no. It was the Leather Jacket (and yes, it <span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">deserves</span> to be capitalized).<br /><br />True story: SH and SS were shopping one day (the usual), and they happened to be talking about their fashion wish lists. The one thing that was on both of theirs was the "Perfect Leather Jacket". Cropped just above the waist, small stand-up collar, vertical pockets, fitted, and of course, the perfect shade of black. And that's when they saw it. Heaven in the store window. Staring back at them, calling their names, taunting them with its beauty and perfectness, there it was. THE. EXACT. JACKET.<br /><br />So of course, they did what any sane girl does when she swears she's <span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">just</span> window shopping and has no intent of buying anything. They bolted for the store and begged the salesgirl for their sizes.<br /><br />We can literally swear, we felt like we had died and gone to heaven. It felt like sex. Only better.<br /><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF9pKZyb6ZCVdBRIXRr7o5LDSBA26U-GZaOz4SGH9e2R9qR2dzrPkFarR01GVgnhxLigj7NlETqhmhfmV3f33j5lA0UOWUub3tFJS9e4tHJKNpvN3T8dkbTuNcFgxMQB_Ehk9yS7wLshB6/s1600-h/n1305360331_30887815_2861286.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 214px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365913459691165298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhF9pKZyb6ZCVdBRIXRr7o5LDSBA26U-GZaOz4SGH9e2R9qR2dzrPkFarR01GVgnhxLigj7NlETqhmhfmV3f33j5lA0UOWUub3tFJS9e4tHJKNpvN3T8dkbTuNcFgxMQB_Ehk9yS7wLshB6/s320/n1305360331_30887815_2861286.jpg" /></a><br /><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="font-size:85%;">SS is about to cry cause she wants it sooo bad, SH is just delirious.<br /></span></span></div><br />45 minutes later, after swooning our hearts out, we left, teary eyed, but vowing to ourselves that it would be ours. Oh yes, it would be ours.<br /><br />And it was. And it is soooo damn good.<br /><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center">- - - - -<br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left">The perfect thing about a leather jacket? You can literally pair it with <span style="FONT-STYLE: italic">anything</span> and it looks PERFECT. Seriously. Once you have one, you are set for life. It can go anywhere from super casual, with a t-shirt and flats, to mega-glam, with a mini-dress and stilettos. It reeks sexiness.<br /><br />So, here are a few of our favorite outfits, but feel free to explore your imagination and remember: there are NO limits.<br /><br />PS - In order to remain ultra-badass, SH and SS named their jackets (Bonnie and Clyde, respectively). Not kidding.<br /><br />Outfit One: Comfy Casual (Perfect for a low-key dinner/movie date with the girls.)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuJh16Km4x0axjIy1FFv4ZnvuJSq4Lqqx5MuZuCebFDBeIW5W_UGxvBPgy1O_sIejSPfaq1V1RS3z1V1bTqg1YUy0GcqLJatbV-0TV8JyWhafFrrjKSUElXCQKqyHmjW_7Lw1-mz2THOrX/s1600-h/classy+061.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 204px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365919231013840914" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhuJh16Km4x0axjIy1FFv4ZnvuJSq4Lqqx5MuZuCebFDBeIW5W_UGxvBPgy1O_sIejSPfaq1V1RS3z1V1bTqg1YUy0GcqLJatbV-0TV8JyWhafFrrjKSUElXCQKqyHmjW_7Lw1-mz2THOrX/s320/classy+061.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Outfit Two: Dressy Casual (Date night with the boy.)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP8MZdiRw0PL0W2P-t3PUwutS7LfGtmF_evSlHe1D1qpBBuJpT-k3KIXmf3DP1rXRd_iycwwAUGimDHjlr19yYjm1vLaqvk-94Qg66Q_j0Pc144WdCHSGaAO2-VTr3bCfchh4nTrI_c4dl/s1600-h/classy+064.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 198px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365919348538588242" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP8MZdiRw0PL0W2P-t3PUwutS7LfGtmF_evSlHe1D1qpBBuJpT-k3KIXmf3DP1rXRd_iycwwAUGimDHjlr19yYjm1vLaqvk-94Qg66Q_j0Pc144WdCHSGaAO2-VTr3bCfchh4nTrI_c4dl/s320/classy+064.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Outfit Three: Super-Chic (Ready to roll for a night out on the town.)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh8ybYGefaebZKPrVP-NB_vg5np2H_TRqEdm3mP-ljkFy2zoQStCV0OxvuJh2rphBTgpT0u675-urbGPBvCizuQvVmauTvhGX7GnUbJ9RMYHiLxfJaN-FZSh6d6-bIB8ntK_aVjUVZ_sdG/s1600-h/classy+066.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 202px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365919493121673778" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh8ybYGefaebZKPrVP-NB_vg5np2H_TRqEdm3mP-ljkFy2zoQStCV0OxvuJh2rphBTgpT0u675-urbGPBvCizuQvVmauTvhGX7GnUbJ9RMYHiLxfJaN-FZSh6d6-bIB8ntK_aVjUVZ_sdG/s320/classy+066.JPG" /></a><br />So there you have it. Go find your perfect leather jacket and release the Fonzie within.<br />-The Classy Chicks<br /></div></div><br /><br /><div><a class="addthis_button" title="data:post.title" url="data:post.url"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" alt="Bookmark and Share" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" /></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div>Classy Chickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15571637270827793755noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-2332612365238709272009-08-03T11:24:00.000-07:002009-11-30T09:14:53.519-08:00Truth: The Efforts of a Good Wing Girl Never go Unnoticed<meta equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"><meta name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"><meta name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"><meta name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 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mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">Ladies, the first thing you need to remember when going out on a night on the town with your friends is to establish some ground rules. For example, when my girls and I plan on hitting the bars we make three basic guidelines for the night.
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<br />First, we establish who is driving for the night. There is nothing sexier than getting home in one piece. My friends and I take turns driving so no one ever has to play the "who-is-least-drunk?" game. Not fun.
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<br />Second, we make sure we look DAMN good. And, let's not kid ourselves, we always do. Confidence is always sexy. Cockiness is not. It's okay to think you look hot! You are!
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<br />Finally, and most importantly, we establish our wing-girls for the evening. What is a wing-girl you ask? Well, let me break it down...
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<br />When picking up guys, its always best to work in small groups. Usually 2 to 4 girls is best. Any more than that and guys start to get intimidated by what we like to call "the pack effect". Men are naturally hunters and they like to swoop in and capture their prey. What they <i>don't</i> know is that we're playing their game, and beating them at it.
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<br />We also make sure that when we're are talking to guys that we don't move in on someone's "mark" or "target". Sure, it sounds cruel, but it's just ground-rules. Basically, my friends and I have a system on letting the other girls know which guy we are interested in, and we would appreciate it if they helped us out and didn't get too cozy.
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<br />Wing-girls are the friends that work on occupying the friends of your "target". And usually, guys are doing the same thing, so although they think they are working their game, we are working ours harder. This can usually be done by striking up an interesting conversation, usually about the creepy guy in the corner that always seems to start dancing like a fool at the sound of a techno-remix of some obscure 80s song.
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<br />When closing out the night, I find that its best to remain coy. I've had a guy who was too shy to first approach me, so I made the first move. However, when the night started to wind down, and I noticed that no number was going to be exchanged, I told him it was nice meeting him and that I would maybe see him around. All of a sudden he tried giving me his number. My trusty wing-girls came to my aid and said that he should take MY number, otherwise, no deal.
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<br />All I can say is, DON'T take it, unless he asks for yours first. If he wants to call you, he will, otherwise let is roll off your back. You have plenty of time to go out next weekend and start from square one! There are plenty of fish in the sea, so why waste time on a minnow when you could catch a shark!
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<br />Happy fishing!
<br />-SS</p> SShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07062711002755467448noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-6400851002845776642009-07-27T22:52:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:23:04.315-08:00DOING A CLUTCH THE CLASSY WAY: How to pick it and pack it.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrkQeD_VcKup0EWmbh_1Xa10huvzQbSA_c_kgLm8j5YTo6XeK_xtlR3DMB_i88BVLHZDJIaGoAXcNL6SV3AOE2hzGg-vBHORrMf1NgYdVoQKv4RKmWQcvou6AOHsJtbthXmFqKrfW3GTCx/s320/BlackandGoldClutch.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrkQeD_VcKup0EWmbh_1Xa10huvzQbSA_c_kgLm8j5YTo6XeK_xtlR3DMB_i88BVLHZDJIaGoAXcNL6SV3AOE2hzGg-vBHORrMf1NgYdVoQKv4RKmWQcvou6AOHsJtbthXmFqKrfW3GTCx/s320/BlackandGoldClutch.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>
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mso-para-margin-bottom:10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left:0in; line-height:115%; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:11.0pt; font-family:"Calibri","sans-serif"; mso-ascii-font-family:Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font:minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family:Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font:minor-latin;} </style> <![endif]--> <p class="MsoNormal">Truth: Clutches are always classy for a night out on the town.
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<br />If you are anything like me then you carry around a massive purse. Why do you need an oversized purse? Well, that is simple. You never know when you are going to need something so you might as well lug everything around with you everywhere you go.
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<br />Now, I am notorious for my big purses and I am okay with that. But, there comes a time when you can’t drag your gigantic purse with you. And when is that time? Most notably, you don’t want to have your purse with you when you go out for a night on the town. This is when clutches come in handy.
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<br />(Guys often associate a women’s oversized purse with her personal baggage. I can object to that. I have no personal baggage ;). However, a bar or club is not the place for a purse to be.)
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<br />Let us get down to some clutch basics:
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<br />Rule 1: You never want to spend a large amount of money on a clutch. My fellow classy chicks might disagree, but I would never spend more than $25 on a clutch. In fact, I have never spent more than $10 on a clutch. These things take some abuse! I guarantee you will drop your clutch and it will see its fair share of spilt drinks. Do yourself a favor and opt for the less expensive clutch.
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<br />Rule 2: Look for a clutch that is weather proof. Like I said before, your clutch will see its fair share of spilt drinks. You don’t want soggy money or soggy anything for that matter. Opt for a patent leather clutch or another water friendly fabric.
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<br />Rule 3: You can’t go wrong with a black clutch but take the opportunity to bring a little color into your life. Since you aren’t spending an arm and a leg on your clutch (clutches are not purses people!), go for a handbag with some pattern or color! Come on; show your personality a bit. You can never go wrong with a red, blue or purple handbag.
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<br />Rule 4: Your clutch needs to securely hold its contents. If you are anything like my friends, you are a party sista! You like to dance and flail your arms around. You, my friend, need some extra protection. Opt for a clutch with a zipper, strong magnetic hold, or button closure. Trust me, if you don’t have a secure clutch, you will wish you did when your iPhone flies across the dance floor.
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<br />Now that we have gone through the basics of picking out your clutch, let’s start talking about contents. Don’t have a panic attack when going from an oversized purse to a teeny tiny clutch! It will be ok! Actually, I do this quite easily. You would be impressed with the bare essentials that I need.
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<br />My top 5 clutch contents are as follows:
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<br />1. iPhone: I like to document my nights out and would not be caught dead without this valuable form on communication.
<br />2. ID: I know this is an obvious pick but it is truly an essential. We don’t all look like mature glamazons. In fact, SS had her ID poked and prodded just last week! (SS, you are a mature glamazon…just not to the bouncer at Blueberry Hill.)
<br />3. Money: Yes, yes I know. Money is another essential. Hopefully fellas will be buying your drinks but you always need a back up.
<br />4. Lip gloss: I always like to have some options floating around in my bag. I will have to defer to LL as to how to keep your lips always looking glossy. She has a secret. Maybe she will share.
<br />5. Mini brush: Let’s face it. Things can get a little crazy and your hair can look downright jacked up once you get off that dance floor.
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<br />Now, I am never caught dead without my top 5 clutch contents listed above, but there are a few other items that you might want to make room for, or at least consider, on your night out.
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<br />· Gum: Someone always asks for it.
<br />· Passport: (Or another form of ID.) For some reason, I always leave my driver’s license in my pants from the night before. I have learned to always keep my passport in my purse for emergency ID purposes.
<br />· Camera: You never know when someone makes a fool of themselves and the camera on your phone does not do the situation justice. However, cameras can be quite balky.
<br />· Powder: Powder comes in handy when it is hot outside. Especially in the STL humidity.
<br />· Keys: We are classy ladies and always have a designated driver. There is no shame. We trade off and on. So, depending on the night, don’t forget your keys!
<br />· Hair ties: Someone always needs a hair tie (or you are just not partying hard enough.) It is good to have them handy.
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<br />Now that we are clear on what to consider when selecting your clutch and how to stock it before you go out, I will leave you with some parting advice. If you are an oversized purse lover like me, then you, my friend, have enough room to keep a clutch in your oversized purse! I have at least one clutch with me everywhere I go. This is perfect for impromptu nights out.
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<br />Now go out with your clutch and keep it classy.
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<br />SH</p> <span style="color: rgb(51, 255, 51);"></span>
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<br />SHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08619989409672707570noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-25088680447868865352009-07-27T14:52:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:32:54.792-08:00Getting to know us....<span style="color:#000000;">1. Describe yourself in five words<br /><br />2. Describe your sense of style<br /><br />3. Why did you get into your field of work / why are you studying to get in your field of work?<br /><br />4. What is on repeat on your <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">iPod</span>?<br /><br />5. What is your favorite drink?<br /><br />6. What is your idea of a great night out?<br /><br />7. Who is your hero?<br /><br />8. Who is your style icon?<br /><br /></span><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="color:#000000;">- - - - -<br /></span><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">SS</span><br /><br /></span></div><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">1. Spunky, feisty, spontaneous, artistic, and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">baller</span>-outrageous (look it up in the dictionary--it's one word...right next to MY picture). </span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">2. Kitschy, hipster, funky, and a splash of Sex & the City chic (even though I LOATHE those girls...you'll find out why eventually). </span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">3. I have always been an artistic old soul trapped in a little girls body and I think that is who I truly am as a person. Ever since I was a little girl and painting (not just drawing -- PAINTING) on my bedroom walls I knew that I was destined to do something art-related in my life. The choices I've made and the path I've followed have led me to a place that is exactly where I want to be at this point in my life. </span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">4. My absolute FAVORITE of all time is <a href="http://www.thebeatles.com/core/home/">The Beatles</a>. <a href="http://www.beyonceonline.com/us/home"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Beyoncé</span></a>, <a href="http://www.3oh3music.com/">3OH!3</a>, and <a href="http://www.lilwayne-online.com/">Lil' Wayne</a>. And <a href="http://www.britneyspears.com/">Britney</a>. No shame.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">5. Its a tie between Captain and Diet or Sex on the Beach. Which, when you think about it, totally makes sense. I mean, who WOULDN'T want to have sex with a pirate on the beach?</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">6. Going bar hopping with my two favorite ladies -- SH and LL. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Duhhhh</span>.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">7. My grandmother. She single-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">handedly</span> raised 12 children in a one bathroom house. If that's not worthy of sainthood, then I don't know what is.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">8. I would say that I adore Grace Kelly's classic elegance but I also LOVE the fierceness of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">Beyoncé</span> (the woman is AMAZING). I like to mix it up so I guess my style icon changes pretty frequently.</span><br /><br /></span><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">SH</span><br /><br /></span><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="color:#666666;"><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">1. Quirky, dorky, nurturing, lucky, and driven.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">2. I am definitely a mixture between elegant-chic, comfortable casual, and city-country. I love nice fabrics, ruffles, plaid, jeans, and cowboy boots. (My favorite things that I don't wear enough of are unique pieces of jewelry. My mother bought me a beautiful jade and gold elephant necklace for my 21st birthday; I will covet it for the rest of my life. I am also hopelessly in love with my impromptu <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">koi</span> friendship necklace.)</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">3. I realized early on that math and science were not for me. That pretty much eliminated a lot of career choices right off the bat. What it came down to was my love for communication. (My dorky side is about to come out so be prepared.) I love the art behind good communication. It is amazing how powerful words can be. I love the planning and strategy behind marketing and I am always astonished by the time and effort it takes to nurture productive relationships. Most importantly, I want to make a meaningful contribution to an organization that I believe in while being challenged at the same time. Communication may be simple, but it is not easy.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">4. I must confess that the only music on my iPhone consists of <a href="http://www.wetheliving.com/?s=1&varemail=%3Cp+align%3D%22left%22%3E%3C%2Fp%3E&varname=%3Cp+align%3D%22left%22%3E%3C%2Fp%3E">We the Living</a>, <a href="http://weareparachute.com/default.aspx">Parachute</a>, and <a href="http://www.taylorswift.com/">Taylor Swift</a>. I love all music. I am just obsessed with the artists formerly listed.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">5. Everyone that knows me knows that I detest the taste of alcohol. (I am also a light weight which makes me a cheap date.) I however have two FAVORITE drinks. You could pump UV Blue and Lemonade through my veins and I would be set for the rest of the night. I also cannot pass up Sex on the Beach from my favorite bar tender, Sean, at <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=66901940&v=feed&story_fbid=109641702732#/morganstreetbrewery?ref=ts&__a=1">Morgan Street</a>. (I don't like anyone <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">else's</span> Sex on the Beach.)</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">6. A great night out would be getting dressed up for a delicious dinner and spending the rest of the night out on the town with my very best of friends (LL and SS. My sweet honey can be there too...haha.) The most important ingredient to the night: we have to wake up laughing about the night before in the morning (or afternoon).</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">7. Oh <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">geez</span>. You will soon realize that Taylor Swift is my long, still-lost best friend. I absolutely adore the girl. I love her music, her style, and her endearing appreciation for all that she is blessed with in life. She is as real as it gets.</span><br /><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">8. <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0004266/">Anne Hathaway</a> is by far my favorite style icon. She has beautiful features and always gets it right. I love how daring she is on the red carpet. She gets an A+ for elegance in my fashion book.</span></span><br /></span><br /></span></div><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="color:#000000;">- - - - -<br /></span></div></div><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"><span style="color:#000000;">Let us get to know you! Send us your answers or some of your questions! We'd love to answer and share our thoughts!<br /><br />Stay classy,<br />The Classy Chicks<br /></span></div><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"></div></div><br /><br /><div><a class="addthis_button" title="data:post.title" url="data:post.url"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px" alt="Bookmark and Share" src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" /></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div>Classy Chickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15571637270827793755noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-918179967756870007.post-48928236301223950702009-07-27T14:27:00.000-07:002010-01-09T10:33:42.757-08:00Here's the story...So, here's the deal. We (and by we, we of course mean the three most fabulous chicks you'll ever meet. EVER. True story.) decided, "Hey, why don't we start a blog so we can be rich and famous just like the people on TV and in movies?!"<br /><br />Okay, not really, but we did think "Hey, why don't we start a blog so that we can share our vast array of knowledge on how to live fabulously and still maintain a pretty amazing drinking resume, all while balancing work, school, boys, and shopping?"<br /><br />We figured that while we master the ins and outs of what else life has to offer us, that we'll share that info with you, the amazing reader (because, let's face it, if you've stumbled upon this and are still reading up to this point, you're freaking awesome).<br /><br />So here's our story; we are three college chicks (well two college chicks and a recent grad -- the grown-up) who are best friends and some classy ladies. And although we have an impressive amount of expertise on a variety of subjects, we still have a lot of figuring out left to do.<br /><br />That is where you come in. As we update the blog with tips and tricks, and just general rules to live by, we expect input, questions, and requests from you! We should all figure this out together. So send us a shout out.<br /><br />Stay Classy,<br />The Classy Chicks<br /><br /><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVXJarVii683HPbJGfRPKhKV-En40EUKPXikE7kuHt7SQPtjnt5CrSeEqRTmQVm8b7uW097vNMAP6DeR_aYv5ZBQkJUsTdx_OPKO4r9wO33qAwnF9PjjLTfdMENCpPOAmCrke0SaoSyEKb/s1600-h/100_4292.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 301px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363260819072031474" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVXJarVii683HPbJGfRPKhKV-En40EUKPXikE7kuHt7SQPtjnt5CrSeEqRTmQVm8b7uW097vNMAP6DeR_aYv5ZBQkJUsTdx_OPKO4r9wO33qAwnF9PjjLTfdMENCpPOAmCrke0SaoSyEKb/s320/100_4292.JPG" /></a><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold;font-size:85%;" ><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,255,51)">SH</span>, <span style="COLOR: rgb(255,153,0)">SS</span>, and <span style="COLOR: rgb(204,102,204)">LL </span>demonstrating the proper way to maintain balance<br />while looking fabulous for an impromptu photo session.</span><br /></div><br />PS - Never mind SS's wonky arm. She is double-jointed...but oh, so classy.<br /><!-- AddThis Button BEGIN --><br /><div><a expr:addthis:title='data:post.title' expr:addthis:url='data:post.url' class='addthis_button'><img src="http://s7.addthis.com/static/btn/v2/lg-share-en.gif" width="125" height="16" alt="Bookmark and Share" style="border:0"/></a><br /><script type="text/javascript" src="http://s7.addthis.com/js/250/addthis_widget.js#username=classychicksstl"></script></div><br /><!-- AddThis Button END -->Classy Chickshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15571637270827793755noreply@blogger.com1